21 January 2009

By The By


"By the by, as I must leave off being young, I find many doceurs in being a sort of chaperone for I am put on the sofa near the fire and can drink as much wine as I like." - Jane Austen




"There's a sense in which Jane Austen has ceased to think of herself in terms of all these myths, all of which end with a prince, and has instead has decided to put family affections at the centre" - A S Byatt

5 comments:

  1. It is sad but my family affections are in dire straits. I'm bad at it.

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  2. are you becoming jane austen then? you have been very loving towards your mom and bro and now you decide the prince is irrelevant?

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  3. i think this has been going on for quite a while... something to be worrying about? On the one hand, i feel cosy with the situation, but on the other, the pressure is certainly there to live the myth.

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  4. at our age, there shouldn't be pressure. not worth it. there's nothing to worry about your life as it is.

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  5. There is, of course: The feeling is always there that I'm not good enough, etc, because I've chosen to sit by the fire.

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